
Paul M. Fochtman
Author & publisher
Wrote the story from his family’s stones and his work in leadership and community at Frankfurt International School.
Illustrated by Gareth Brewster
Pick up the stones. Drag, throw and rearrange them.In a world of stories where journeys run free
lived one of me and a family of we.
A child finds a painted stone by her door and wonders whether it is hers to keep or hers to share. The stone answers with a story about its family: cairn stones, pinning stones, breakwater stones, heart stones and more. Each one carries a quiet lesson about care, belonging and the strength we give one another.
There is no Me in the Story of the Stone, only We.

The Story of the Stone began with small hands picking up stones on family journeys and a painted stone left quietly at a door. It grew, through many people, into a story about family, leadership and community.
A family tradition of picking up heart-shaped stones on their travels, keepsakes of time spent together.
Story to addDr. Becky Jobes encouraged Paul to create a motivational speech built around the stones in our lives.
Date & detailAlec Aspinwall, published author, coach and career “wingman”, helped turn the speech into a story.
Story to addGareth Brewster painted and designed every page, restarting more than once as the story and his vision grew.
Process imagesPublished by Paul M. Fochtman in Frankfurt am Main and printed in Germany, first edition 2026.
Launch details
Like a dry-stone wall, every person here holds part of the weight.

Author & publisher
Wrote the story from his family’s stones and his work in leadership and community at Frankfurt International School.

Illustrator & book designer
Painted the collage stones and scenes and designed and laid out the book.

The spark
Encouraged the motivational speech that became this book “and so much more”.

Amplifier
Amplified the stories in many ways.

Coach & “wingman”
Published author and friend whose insight and creativity brought the story to life.

Family
Their interest, journeys and traditions gave the story its first life.
A short quote from Paul and Gareth on working together goes here.
How the idea of moving from “me” to “we” underpinned FIS’s professional development focus for 2025/26.
The book’s stones offered staff a shared language for leadership and community.

Launch with all faculty
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Reflection & celebration
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Discussion starters and activity ideas for every age, drawn from each stone in the book. Choose an age group to tailor the prompts.
Outlines for now. Full plans with objectives, timings and printables will follow.
Move a stone into the circle to reveal its story and a question to talk about. Fill the circle and watch a “me” become a “we”.
Drag any stone into the circle. Each one carries a different story.